I Did It!

I am REALLY chuffed. I do like the girlie in question a lot, but I HAVE to start behaving more….more….decently, I guess. Booty calls/texts have their place in any single person’s life, but they shouldn’t be ruled by them. And for a change I have been mature, sensible, restrained…..boring?

I think I’ve had something of a mental watershed recently, with regard to my opinion about women/relationships/sex. Let’s face it, sex is incredibly good fun. But is it possible to indulge yourselves without one of the people involved developing stronger feelings than just a need to burn off some excess hormones? Probably not, which makes the whole booty call thing suddenly seem a little perilous. I don’t want somebody to buy into liking me “properly” when I only have a “good time” mentality, as equally it would hurt me if I found myself with strong feelings for somebody who is happy to just “get their jollies”.

I recently made a complete arse of myself when I actually plucked up the courage to tell a certain lady exactly how I felt. I like her A LOT and after a lot of flirting I eventually decided to take the metaphorical plunge over the Waterfall Of Honesty. “I like you a lot, and fancy you, and would really like to move things on between us.”

The answer? “Let’s stay friends”. I might have guessed as much, as the lady in question is seven or eight divisions above me in terms of looks, lifestyle, career, you name it. But I went for it and got the answer that (all the time) I had expected.

Ho bloody hum.

So, as I said in a fairly recent blog, I don’t want to get into a full-on do with anyone, because I can’t make it work. Yet I asked someone to do exactly that. What a hypocrite. Having spent the week since the rejection thinking about things, I’ve come to the following conclusion; a brief (i.e. about 6 month) but intense relationship, with a friendly ending, is probably the best scenario for me at the moment. The woman? Well, if you’re talking “ideal”, she will have to be older than me, quirky, intelligent, FAR from a stick-insect figure, flirty, not put-off by spending some time with FANTASTIC 4-year-old nippers, most of all, “nice”. If you know anyone like that please forward their names and addresses to me! That would be a fantabulous Christmas present.

That’s about it, really. My blogs are getting more and more personal. Is that a good thing?

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